At the end of the day...at the end of our lives I believe all any of us really want is to be remembered with love and light. To be buried in loved ones hearts and memories with fondness, to be unearthed by a bitter-sweet pleasantness of memory. 

All we want is for our favorites to recall the love we've shared and held for each other and the laughter and light that took place during our time on earth. And at the end of the day, those grudges that once seemed so important should melt away. The pride and the hurts, whatever we thought we needed to hold on to fades and we are hopefully left holding the fondest part of a person held dear. 

"When we all get to heaven what a day of rejoicing that will be!

When we all see Jesus we'll sing and shout the victory."